Sunday, April 27, 2008
What a day...
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Tales of Poop
We went to Home Depot to get some plants for the backyard and when we were walking to our car this lady had unloaded her things in her trunk and spun around (quickly) and clobbered M with her shopping cart. I mean hard, knocked him into my cart and then he fell on the ground. I wasn't very happy with her. Hello, how big of a hurry are you in? Poor thing... I felt bad for him and then he kept saying "I want Daddy" which made me a little sad.
After M's head injury we went to McDonald's and got a Happy Meal and took it to the park for a little picnic because I felt sad for him. Believe it or not, there are worse things to eat. They each get chicken nuggets, apples and a juice box. Not too shabby really. Anyways, we were at the park, eating our little picnic when he says "I have to go potty". So we pack all of our stuff away, go to a port-a-potty (yuck), he goes potty and then we have to wash our hands in a drinking fountain (because there isn't anything else and the car is a mile away). So we get back and finish eating and they are playing a little and then he tells me "uh, oh, now I have to go POOP". Say what? So I gather everything up, we're running back to the car. K's having a fit, scratching me (she can be really mean) and off we go. While we're in the car he's acting like he doesn't even have to go anymore. I ask him, "can Mommy get the mail, do you still have to go poop." He says, "yeah Mommy, you can get the mail... it's not coming out now." Then he says, "my poops saying, NO NO, I want to stay in here." We are all cracking up on the way home. Kids are just too funny.
Tonight before bed I was reading M a book and it had a helicopter in it. I told him that he has been in a helicopter before. He said "when". I told him that when Mommy and Daddy went to Hawaii we went on a helicopter ride and he was in my tummy. He said very seriously "how did I get out of there?" This is the second time in about a week that this question has come up. What do I tell him? I'm not sure where to go with this. I just said "when you decide to come out, you just come out." And quickly changed the subject.
K's new thing is she says "oh, cool" for different things. Also, tonight I was having problems with my computer and she came up and said "oh my goodness." Her vocabulary is amazing. She is also walking around and singing Happy Birthday to herself. It's pretty funny. Today she came up to me and gave me a sprinkler part and said "happy birthday Mommy." So cute.
Thats all for tonight. I know lots of reading... probably very boring for most of you.
Friday, April 25, 2008
Lake Tahoe
Had beers with Monte and Dyan at The Club tonight for our usual 1 1/2 hours on Friday night away from the kids. Sure is fun to relax and sit by the pool with a cold one. The time sure goes by quickly. There were quite a few people there tonight. We love that place.
Monday, April 21, 2008
A picture of Brian and I
We are going on a little over-nighter trip to Lake Tahoe tomorrow after M gets out of school. It should be fun but I think it's going to be cold. Maybe we'll even have snow.
M and I went to lunch with Dyan and M. Our other 2 went to school today. It was awesome... so easy with just one child.
Yesterday I went to the gym to workout and I had already told the kids that we would go to the little playground at the Club when we were done. It really worked out because someone was having a birthday party but it hadn't started yet so they let us play in the big bounce house. M had a blast but of course K's attention span for that was only about 5 minutes. She wanted to go and run around and have me chase her (which I couldn't do because M was jumping in the bounce house). There are 3 pools and 2 spas so you have to watch them like a hawk. One of the most difficult things for me in having 2 children is how do you punish one without it affecting the other one. If I would have just had M when he was her age I would have told him we were going to leave if he didn't stay by me but I couldn't do that because that wasn't fair to M and he wasn't doing anything wrong and was having a great time. I tried giving her a timeout but she wouldn't stay there... so the only way I got her to listen was to tell her she wasn't getting a cookie when we leave if she wasn't good. Well, K loves sugar so that worked. (cookies at the gym, isn't that helpful)
Should I live in a trailer park?
1. Brian says I should live in a trailer park because I found this stuff at Costco that's called Batter Blaster and I basically looks like a whipped cream can but it's pancake batter. Oh my, couldn't be easier and is just as yummy. Of course, whipping up a batch of pancakes from scratch and embellishing with oats, pumpkin or pecans would of course be better but for the kids on a busy morning this is awesome. It's also made with whole wheat flour and is organic. I tried to attach a picture from the website but it wouldn't work. www.batterblaster.com
2. Hands down the best facial moisturizer I've ever owned is Hope in a Jar by Philosophy. I'm not ready to be a Cover Girl model or anything but I'm not kidding you, you can see the difference in a few days. I had used it months ago and ran out and my face looked and felt terrible. I tried another brand but had to go back to this one. It was one of Oprah's Favorite Things a few years ago. You can get it at Sephora or Nordstrom for $38 but because I'm thrifty (not cheap) I got my last jar on Ebay (new and sealed) for $28 including shipping. Try it...you'll see.
3. Oxi-Clean Stain Remover. This stuff is great. Last week K had purple Jamba Juice ALL over her white sweater. All of it came out. It's almost fun to do the kids laundry now. I haven't had a stain that this didn't get out. I got 2 for $4.99 at Costco.
A little bit proud of myself. I have been much better about getting to the gym. I think I went 5 out of 7 days this week (Dyan correct me if I'm wrong). I'm going even on the days I work which has never happened. I'm not seeing any results but I feel better after I've gone. It also helps a lot to have someone to work out with. Now if I could just change my eating habits... grrrgh. I am cutting back on a few things here and there but I just can't get rid of the Starbucks.
360 calories, 7 grams of fat
Yesterday as I was putting M to bed I told him I didn't have to work for a few days so I would be home. He said "people aren't getting owies now?" How cute is that?
Another funny story (to me at least). Yesterday I while M was in school I told K that we would go for a walk in a little while. She said "Roco (Roscoe) come too?" I said sure. About 15 minutes later she said "go to the park" and I asked her if she wanted to go now. She screamed "yeah, let's get going Mommy!"
Quirky things about my kids.
M has to have a hood on his sweatshirts or coats. It's really a huge ordeal if he doesn't and he is just miserable. He always wants to wear his hoods (even today when it was 67 degrees).
K is scared (OK freaks out) over night lights all of a sudden. This just started about 2 weeks ago.
Couple of pictures from the park today. None of them turned out great but here they are anyways. M had a blast chasing some girls that were there. He was the "monster" and loved every minute of it. Boy is he beat tonight... I got away with only reading one book. (I really feel like I'm getting away with something)
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Randomness...is that a word?
This morning M had gone potty (number 1) in my bathroom and he can't reach the sink in there to wash his hands. I was changing K's diaper when he said, "I can't wash my hands." I told him I would help him in a minute. Then he said "mom, if I don't wash my hands I will get WORMS!". They must have told him that at school. I know I've never said that.
After I picked him up from school today he was snacking on the leftovers from his lunch box at school and said "I was a hungry bunny". I said, "what?" Then he says, "I ate all of my carrots so I was a hungry bunny". Just made me crack up.
Tonight K sat in the baby dolls stroller that Willy got her for Christmas and M was pushing her around the stairs in the house like it was Nascar, skidding around corners and the whole bit. She was giggling so hard and they were having so much fun I just allowed it. Pick your battles, right? They must have gone around the stairs 20 times, caught it on video... it was very cute. He got a little cardio workout and was sweaty when they stopped.
Thats all for tonight. Off to pick up the playroom... a tornado must have gone through there tonight.
Melissa
Monday, April 14, 2008
A Little About Me.
On your mind: As usual, all the things I want to do tomorrow.
Last meal included: Pizza that I made on bagels, a green apple. Toddler food.
The weather: Today was windy and chilly. Yesterday was 91 degrees.
Something you have a collection of: I have started collecting teapots but I don't have very many yet. My mom painted one for me for Christmas and I love it.
A smell that cheers you up: Baby Magic Lotion, fresh flowers.
A smell that can ruin your mood: It's a tie between stinky feet and gas... yuck!
How long since you last shaved: Last night.
The current state of your hair: In a ponytail... went to the gym this morning and sadly haven't had the time or the energy to do it.
The largest item on your desk/workspace (not computer): My camera cases.
Which section you head for first in a bookstore: Children's
Something you're craving: Anything chocolate!
Your general thoughts on the presidential race: Not sure yet.
How many times have you been hospitalized this year: None, I'm so thankful for good health for myself and my family.
Favorite place to go for a quiet moment: I love to sit down in a nice bookstore and read with a hot cup of coffee and no children.
You've always secretly thought you'd be a good: Waitress... sometimes I feel like what I do isn't much different but I DON'T get tipped!!
Something that freaks you out a little: Heights, but I had no problem going skydiving. Go figure. If I have a risk of slipping and falling (like off a cliff) I totally freak out. Can't look over the edge.
Something you've eaten too much of lately: Breads, carbs. (pizza bagels)
You have never: Gone snow skiing. (see above... fear of cliffs)
You never want to: Go snow skiing, bungee jumping, scuba diving.
Today, we broke out the new Play-Doh kitchen. I've decided that something I could loosen up a little about is worrying about whether the different colors of the Play-Doh get mixed up. I'm not a nag about it or anything but I try really hard to keep them separated and it just bugs me when they get mixed up. I'm realizing that Play-Doh is like $5.00 and not worth worrying about, I just need to enjoy the time with them! M and I made tacos. M said "your dinner's ready my dear" to me when the pretend food was done. It was so cute. K had a big chunk of Play-Doh and she said "a hippopotamus". OK, if you say so. It was a great time until K decided she was going to start throwing, no launching the Play-Doh on the floor!
After their baths today, M said they were ghosts and they were both running around with their towels on saying "oooo, oooo." I screamed and said I was scared and M said "we're not mean, we're white ghosts." Thinking of Casper, I guess.
Playing outside
My goal was organization... I focused on cabinets, closets and drawers. It's amazing what you can get done without THEM being here. It's a wonderful feeling to get that done. I'm definatlely not done but I got a lot accomplished. Then in the afternoon Brian did a few things that needed to be done around here.
He made Steel Head fish for dinner... he put dijon mustard and bread crumbs on it and baked it. It was delicious. M even ate it. Tasted a lot like salmon.
Afte dinner, we went outside to play. It was so nice here. Brian and M played catch and T-Ball. He really likes it and it doing pretty good for 3 (almost 4) years old. Here are some pictures.
Saturday, April 12, 2008
My BABY is 2 years old!
After K's nap we met Dyan, Monte and the kids at the park to open K's gifts and have cupcakes. M and K were both a little grouchy (and so were mom and dad) at the park but it was still a fun time. I loved watching K open her gifts. She had help from the other kids and she kept saying "my turn." M helped me make strawberry cupcakes with pink vanilla frosting and sprinkles yesterday. They were definately a hit with the kiddos. See pictures. We had a good scare at the park when K walked right into M while he was swinging. I'm not kidding, I can't believe she didn't have a real injury. He was swinging so high it pretty much lifted her off the ground and she came down really hard. She bit her tongue earlier while we were at lunch (she has been doing that a lot lately) and she did it again when he hit her. She cried for a long time and kept crying "bonk" but surprisingly have any cuts or scrapes. Of course, I felt so guilty. I am posting a lot of pictures today because it's a very important day.
I love you sweetie. Mom
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
K's Birthday Celebration at Granny's
Granny gave her a bunch of dress-up stuff.
I haven't blogged for a while. I have been exhausted. Since we've come back Brian and I have been working opposites and M has been very difficult. I don't know if he was overly tired from being on vacation and out of our routine or what. He's been very mean to his sister as well as Brian and I which just isn't him. Yesterday he needed 6 or 7 time outs. On one of the time outs, I was taking him downstairs to our time out spot (on the bottom of the stairs) and he was smiling. I was so angry I said "don't smile at me"... I know probably not the most mature thing for me to say. He got to the bottom of the stairs and looked me right in the eyes and gave me the biggest teethy smile ever. Ooooh. I was mad. Then he would sit in time out and scream at the top of his lungs. I told him I would ad extra time if he kept making noise and he stopped. Brian said he had the hardest day he has ever had with the kids on Saturday. Why do the hard days with the kids seem so long? Today was much better. M and I had a long talk before he went to bed last night. I asked him if he liked seeing my grumpy all day and explained that he had to be nice to K. We wouldn't tolerate anything else and he would spend a lot of time on time out. It must have done something because I could tell by 9 am that it was going to be a better day. At K's nap he and I made rice crispy treats and I told him if he didn't get any time outs all day we would have one tonight. He was very good. We worked on learning his letters today and during the bedtime routine he said "thank you for teaching me my letters today... it makes me love you." He says that a lot about different things.
K has been very good. She makes me laugh a lot and entertains herself most of the time. Today we were in the grocery store and I was singing to her while we were shopping and she kept pushing at me and saying "stop it" over and over. Then there was another little girl in the store and her dad was making small talk with me about our kids and he told the little girl to say hi to K and tell her happy birthday (I told him she would be 2 on Saturday). K wouldn't even look at this little girl and when I told her to say hi to her she said "don't like it" and "stop it" and was such a little brat. How embarrassing it that? What do I say?
Yesterday K and I went to a MOMS Club event at Burberry Park while M was in school. They had a scavenger hunt and picnic. There were a lot of moms there and we had a really nice time. I met a few new people which is always nice.
Friday, April 4, 2008
Girlie stuff is fun.
Yesterday M said I bet you can't guess where I'm going or something silly like that and I guessed the bathroom to go potty (because he was already unbuttoning his pants) and he peeked out from around the bathroom and said "mom, you're a smart girl." I doubt he'll say that when he's a teenager. Another thing that he does is corrects me quite often. Let say, we're reading a book and I say it's a jaguar... he'll say no it's not, it's a puma or a great while shark instead of a white-tip shark (yes, he knows all of these) There are lots of other examples but for some reason I can't remember them right now. Yesterday we were coming home from school and they were watching Peter Pan (his fave right now) and he wanted to stay in the car and watch it after we got home. I told him we could take it out and watch it in the house. He said "that's very nice of you mom, it really makes me love you." So later that day when we were headed to the gym K was repeatedly saying "it's not working" about the TV. I told them I didn't know why it wasn't working and that we were almost home anyways. Then M said, "mom, are you forgetting something?" I replied I didn't know. He said "there's no movie in there silly, we took it in the house." He just cracks me up. Little smarty pants.
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
The cute things they say
Tried to break K of the fie (pacifier) last night. She threw it down in the car yesterday and said her usual "I don't like it". So, Brian and I took the opportunity to tell her she was a big girl now and we should just get rid of them. We put her to bed, she asked for the fie the whole way in. I explained to her that she was big now and doesn't need it anymore. She whined "please Mommy, fie" several times and cried for about 3 minutes and then fell asleep. I almost fell out. Things were going so well until about midnight when she screamed bloody murder for it. I've discovered I have a lot less will power at midnight. I'm just tired, I admit I'll do whatever it takes to be able to sleep. I think we'll just give it at naps and bedtime now. Getting rid of it at bedtime is not going to be easy. I'M not ready yet.
We're Back!
We left for our cruise around 11:00 on Friday, the Carnival Paradise to Ensenada, Mexico. We finally decided to go high class and actually get a room with a window!! Not a port hole either, ha, ha. What a difference it makes. We had a really fun table at dinner, the food was delicious... I want to go back. We decided not to do any of the tours in Ensenada... just wanted to kick back and do whatever we felt like. We stumbled upon the coolest mexican bar. Of course, there's Papas and Beer and Mango Mango but it wasn't really our style. We actually wanted to talk to each other and be able to hear each other. The bar we found was definately a local hangout. There was a mariachi band playing when we walked in and is was open so you felt like you were outside. After a beer or 2 we started talking to the locals (in our gringo spanish) and asked what they were drinking. One of the gentleman replied "El Bull, es bueno." So we decided we would try ONE. It had a shot of Triple Sec, a shot of Tequila, a shot of Rum, a splash of fresh lime, a splash of soda and a beer on top. So yummy but wow. Brian said he felt fine until he got up to go to the bathroom. He walked at an angle. We were talking with the bartender a lot and he asked Brian if he wanted one more... (we were already sharing the 3rd one)... Brian said no "no puede caminar". (I can't walk or something like that). Brian tipped him very well as he always does. When Brian went to the bathroom he made us an extra one on the house... let me tell you, I think it had twice the alcohol. We had so much fun laughing and talking and stumbling back to the ship. Thank goodness for the 8:30 dinner. I took a 2 hour nap when we got back!!
The weather was cold on Sunday (a day at sea). It really didn't matter though, we wore sweatshirts and hung out by the pool anyways. Ate all day, gambled and went to the show and dinner in the evening. A very relaxing weekend... for sure.
When we got off the ship, we met Brian's parents and picked the kids up. I had really started missing them in the morning that day. We got the most wonderful welcome home from them. K kept hugging and kissing me, patting my back, touching my face, smiling and wrinkling her little nose up in excitement. It was so cute, she acted like we had been gone forever. M was excited too, Brian's parents had gotten him a little disposable camera to take pictures while we were gone so we could see what they had done. He took a picture of us together before we left for the cruise in front of the car and they got a cute little frame for it and he came running over to us to give it to us when we got home. He must have looked at the picture and showed us the picture at least 10 times on the way home. I looked back once and he was kissing it. He's so lovable.